“All the good men are taken.”
“No one is ever going to love me.”
“I’m too old to get married and have kids.”
Do any of these phrases sound familiar? Have you heard your friends (or yourself) say them?
Stories like these are only true if we believe them. If you believe no one is ever going to marry you or that you’re not worthy of being loved, you’re going to put out vibes that convey that to other people. And those people will believe it too.
Fantasy Dating provides an opportunity for you to rewrite the story you’ve been telling yourself. If you’ve been afraid to date or unhappy with your love life, ask yourself, “What story have I been telling myself?”
Then change it.
If your story is, “I never meet anyone because I don’t have any single girlfriends to go out with,” you’re in luck. You don’t need single girlfriends to Fantasy Date. You can join a Fantasy Dating league and make new friends get your game on with.
If your story is, “I’m too shy to approach someone,” that’s not true either. Sure, approaching someone can be scary, but you can smile, make eye contact, and say, “Hi.” You know you can. And once you do, you’ll be surprised at how good it feels!
If your story is, “I’ve been really hurt before and I can’t do it again,” you have a choice. You can punish yourself for the rest of your life by denying yourself the opportunity to love or you can empower yourself to find love. Which sounds more appealing to you?
What love life story are you telling yourself? How will you change it?